Truth Serum

We lie all the time — to our families, to our friends, to the people we love. There are times when it seems like it’s the best option, and others when it feels like the only option. But it’s hard to lie to ourselves. Actually, it’s damn near impossible. Sure, we can think the thought … Continue reading Truth Serum

Don’t

I don’t want you to make love with me. I don’t want you to kiss me. I don’t even want you to agree to a date with me. I don’t want any of it if you don’t mean it. There’s a difference between sleeping with someone and making love with them. There’s a difference between … Continue reading Don’t

Same Girl, Eight Years Later: A Real-Life Ted Mosby ‘Double Date’ Moment

I’ve gotten more than enough Ted Mosby comparisons over the years that I’ve happily accepted the likening to the “How I Met Your Mother” main character. Not only do I think people’s perceptions are spot-on, but I personally take the comparison as a compliment. We definitely have our similarities — hopeless romantic, valuing a relationship … Continue reading Same Girl, Eight Years Later: A Real-Life Ted Mosby ‘Double Date’ Moment

Do You

When I was heavily into Tinder use and trying to pick up girls at bars or any pubic setting — seeing and talking to multiple girls at a time — I was judged for being “that guy” who seemingly had a new girl to talk about every day. I was judged for being “that guy” … Continue reading Do You